Social Media

Social Media

Concerns include disordered eating, privacy issues, low-self esteem (filters), exploitation, mental health concerns, isolation, attention-span.

Hyperpersonal effect- seems more important if said online.

Social comparison theory and Ziegarnik Effect: Looking for conclusion to social interaction (read, likes, FOMO).

The "Goldilocks effect" in the context of technology suggests that there's an optimal level of digital engagement that is neither too much nor too little, but "just right," for well-being.

An article about Fitness trackers

  • Parent Guides for Snapchat, Instagram, TikTok can be found online.

  • Regularly check ins with child/youth/partner about social media use.

  • Tech Talk Tuesdays blog has wonderful information for how to talk about tech benefits and challenges. Learn more

  • One Sec app (creates a pause to think before going on app)

  • Stay Free (limits and blocks different websites)

  • Unhook Youtube (removes recommended videos)

  • Loan phone like a library card (kids cannot purchase own phone from providers until age 18)

  • Pinwheel Phone is a basic phone you can now purchase. Pinwheel.com

  • Start apps on your device first, how did they do?

  • You can decide they are not ready for an app or game and can try again another time.

How Instagram is Failing to Protect Minors

from fairplay for kids

Current Trends/Apps that Could be Dangerous

Media / Entertainment

Netflix, Crave etc.
set limits

Reddit, Quora

BIGO live

VSCO

Roblox

Private Subscriptions

Onlyfans, Fansly, Chatterbait

Dating / Social

Bumble/Tinder/Yubo/Hinge/Feeld

Misc

Airdrop
(Mac, iPhone etc. – 30 ft- no blocking/reporting)

Private photo and or calculator/
camera to hide content/music too

ask fm

Parlor

Blendr

Anonymous Sites -
Whisper, Omegle, Youbo

Common Social Media Suggestions:

Instagram/Finsta
Comment controls - All Caught Up Cannot curate - Vanish mode

Snapchat
Mute Story - Silence notifications

TikTok 
Restricted mode -Weekly Challenges (Smart Social app)
Cannot curate -
Note: Kids can access online without the app.

YouTube
(kidsyoutube)  

Messaging/
Video chat Apps

Telegram
What’s App 
Signal
Google Hangout
Houseparty
Voxer
Holla
WeChat
Confide
IMVU
kik
BeReal
Playstation Party
GroupMe

Protect Your Kids
From Dangerous Apps

  • Apps post birthdays, schools etc. allows people to track you.

  • People can learn what your likes and dislikes are. 

  • Minimum age for apps raised to 16 and age verification required ( Dr. Jean Twenge’s and Jonathan Haidt’s recommendation.)

Using social media may impair children’s attention

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What the Manosphere Wants From Our Boys, and How We Can Push Back

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Articles

Australia’s Social Media Ban for Kids Explained

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Why the critics are wrong about Australia's social media law

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